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Post by Brown Lizzie » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:02 pm
Message for Fifi, please tell your husband not to contact MBNA if you don't want to ruin your night!! As predicted following my own conversation with MBNA this morning, my husband telephoned them this afternoon as he also has an account, again the representatives attitude was appalling, he commented to my husband that as far as he was concerned we had been living the high life over the last year as we have spent on holidays abroad, and also stressed that no way would MBNA or indeed any other creditor agree to an IVA when reviewing our spending patterns if they were similar to the way we had spent with MBNA. My husband stood his ground and responded "why don't you twist the knife in a little more, do you think I want to be contacting you with my financial problems, I would much rather pay you if I could", to which the rep replied I'm just doing my job, which appears to be belittling and reducing people to tears!! I have to say that all other creditors, Northern Rock, Barclays, Egg have been very good and not judgemental whatsoever. We are however, very concerned that the MBNA rep is telling it as it is i.e. that the success of our IVA will be judged on our spending patterns. Any advice would be really appreciated. We still have to contact Abbey Santander, Capital One and Barclaycard, are we likely to get the same treatment does anyone know???
 
 

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Post by Michael Peoples » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:12 pm
MBNA and others do take into account spending patterns when reviewing IVAs and DMPs. However, they also sell a large number of their debts pre IVA so by the time of the creditors' meeting they will no longer have any say in the outcome.

Rather than speaking to creditors you could possibly send a letter with a token payment to them all. This normally puts matters on hold for a few weeks which gives the IP time to draft the proposal.
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Post by freelili » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:13 pm
Hi and I am sorry you are being treated like this.

However as said before what goes on from the begining of the conversation right to the end is tosh. They have no control over the debt, they are, as they say just doing their job and it seems that MBNA have the policy of making people feel bad. Take no notice, you have really one choice here, let it ruin your night or not. I wouldnt, they cant get blood out of a stone and neither can you. Whats done is done, whats spent is spent, unfortunately, we cannot turn the clock back, all we can do is move forward. The past is gone, its history and no longer exists.

MBNA are aggressive, they always have been, they are also persistant, its realy down to you if you let this happen. Make a note of their number and dont answer the phone or alternatively answer and say youre not prepared to enter into a conversation. There job is to scare you and its worked, dont let it.

Please try not to scare other forum members with your experience of this company, just remember they are talking tosh. It really doesnt matter what they say or what they threaten, its up to the big boys of the company and Melanie will put your best offer forward.

Good luck and very best wishes.
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Post by Abi » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:15 pm
Hi Brown Lizzie,
We have 15 creditors, and have been in an IVA since September, My Hubby has an account with MBNA and like you they were rude, he only spoke to them once... We were contacted regulary by all the others at least once a week but to be fair the phone calls were ok they were just wanting updates, please don't worry (I know its easier said than done our debt between us was over £115K and we are with Melanie, she must feel as though you have a good case put your faith in her team and they'll see you through it.
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Post by fifilebonbon » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:24 pm
Hey Lizzie - have already told hubby not to call MBNA or indeed Halifax Mastercard - I just think after everything I have read on here - WHAT is the point? We have written to them and will continue to do so if necessary. We have spoken to the key creditors that we needed to and as for MBNA and the other 2 credit cards we have (Halifax and Mint) I'm just going to ignore the calls and do my best not to let it stress me out. At the end of the day Melanie and her team are handling the case now and I am sure that it wont be long before your proposal is ready and its all sorted out. They have flurries of phoning regularly and then quieten off again. I've had a couple today and ignored them both. So just keep your chin up hon - we're all in the same boat and like the others say Melanie I'm sure would not have taken our cases on if she didnt think she could do something with them!! Big hug to you..Fi xxx
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Post by Brown Lizzie » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:25 pm
Firstly apologies to Freelili, my intention wasn't to scare forum members, I'm just panicking and a bit distressed. Thank you all for your comments and support. I've spoken to Melanie's team and it appears that MBNA reps are on commission to retrieve money from debtors. With that in mind I'll try to take what they say with a pinch of salt, keep smiling and plod on!
 
 

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Post by kallis3 » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:27 pm
Lizzie,

I would do what Michael says, and write to them. That's what I did to mine.

You do not have to take the calls. If you have caller display, then I would ignore any numbers you don't know and blocked numbers. Do you have an answering machine? If so, once that kicks in, they will either ring off or leave a short message asking you to ring, and you can just hit the delete button.

Have you thought about changing your number and going ex directory? They won't be able to ring then. If you are worried about telling friends and relatives, you can always say you have been getting nuisance calls.

Just to reiterate what has already been said, the call centre staff have no bearing whatsover on whether you get an IVA or not, they are just trying to scare you into paying money. Don't listen to them.
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Post by Viki.W » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:30 pm
Hey brown lizzie, I'm not sure why you are phoning them, is it to obtain up to date balances? I didn't call any of my creditors, I sent them all a letter, Melanie sent me out a template to use, you can also find them on the left hand side of this page. I wouldn't speak to them again, you don't want to be upset.
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Post by freelili » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:32 pm
Hi Hun,

No worries, I know they can ruin you day and make you feel like you are a criminal. Call centre staff are just trying to extract as much money as they can and will use anything to get you to pay something. Thats how they reach their target for the day.

MBNA are one of the worst for arguing and upsetting people, it seems its their policy to sling anything at you and try to unsettle you.

I know its hard but please dont let them get to you. The person you spoke to is right now doing the same thing to someone else. If you answer them again tell them to move on as you cant pay and put the phone down.

Things will get better, its always really hard with the calls at first. Take a look at this thread.

Good luck hun.
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Post by flumpy dog » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:32 pm
hi lizzie hun x
i am experiencing exactly the same as you
it got so bad i rung mels office and the lovely lady there rung my worst creditor for me and got them off my back.
i am at the same stage as you and although i am still worried sick i know it will come good some how.
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Post by freelili » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:37 pm
HERE YOU GO FOLKS, SLING SOME OF THIS AT THEM. Dont let them win and make you feel bad, you can get through this. Just keep telling yourself youre doing your best that you can do. Youre not alone either.
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Right you worms, get ready for turning! It's time to put these collection agencies in their place!

WARNING – LONG POST

This post has been inspired by a number of people who of late, have been reduced to tears and in one or two cases, have even thought about 'ending it all'.

UNDERSTAND THIS, AND UNDERSTAND IT WELL! – YOU OWE CREDITORS MONEY, NOT YOUR LIFE!

Yes, your creditors or their agents are allowed to contact you if you default on a loan repayment or credit agreement. They are even allowed to contact you at work (but they must not discuss your debts with your work colleagues) or call at your home to discuss the matter with you (although you are not obliged to discuss it with them and you are perfectly within your rights to ask them to leave). But what they are NOT allowed to do is to harass you, discuss your situation with neighbours, pretend that they have more powers than they do have, pretend that they have the right to visit your home and take away goods or add collection fees to your debt, call you repeatedly at work or during unsociable hours.

Regrettably, some over zealous collection agencies seem to be flouting the laws because they know that most people are not aware of what they can and can't do. There are a number of laws that protect people in debt from unreasonable behaviour from creditors or their agents, namely, Section 40 of The Administration of Justice Act 1970 and specifically, The Protection from Harassment Act 1997.

Let's be clear about this, it is a CRIMINAL OFFENCE if a creditor or their agent makes demands for money in such a manner that it causes the debtor or his/her family, alarm, distress or humiliation. Specifically, harassment is a criminal offence under Section 2 of The Protection from Harassment Act 1997 and punishment on conviction, is six months' imprisonment and/or a level 5 fine (up to £5,000).

Before we can begin to tackle harassment, I think it is relevant to understand why creditors or their agents use 'questionable tactics' in their endeavours to collect in delinquent accounts. In a nutshell, it is fear. The first thing that happens is that they realise that they are not the only creditor. Upon this realisation it seems to set off an 'every man for himself' reaction and they appear hell bent on forcing as much payment as they can, in as quick a time period as possible, from their 'victim'. The idea here seems to be, damage limitation. “The more we can get in now, the less we are likely to lose in the long run”. In my opinion, this is a very short sighted policy and in fact only serves to worsen the situation and in many cases, actually tips the decision to declare bankrupt.

Let's look at some of the more common threats or tactics used by these 'debt collectors' and analyze them a bit.

1. “We won't accept £25 per month, we will only accept a minimum of £38.50 per month and if you don't pay this, we will take you to Court.”

It's the 'Take you to Court' part that is designed to frighten you and understandably this does get results for them. No-one wants to go to Court do they? Or do they? First of all, the threat of Court action is usually an empty one and this action is usually reserved for people who won't make any kind of payment or who ignore them. If you do what we recommend on this board, produce a statement of affairs and make a realistic offer in line with your ability to pay, there is no way in this world that they would take you to Court. Why? because the likelihood is, that the Judge would absolutely wipe the floor with them for wasting Court time and it is even more likely that the Judge would make an order for payment for LESS than what you actually offered and also it is likely that the Judge would not award them any costs. FACT: the Courts will not permit your income to be lowered below a level which you require to subsist. So, if you can't afford to pay more than you've offered, there is not a Law which will make you do so. Creditors know this but they are banking on the fact that you do not – now you do.

2. “If you don't pay us at least £50 a month, we will send one of our collectors round to your house”

And? Let me know what time he's coming and I'll buy a cake, is it one sugar or two? Again, it is the 'fear' of someone turning up on your doorstep that they are relying on to get you to commit to more than you can afford. Debt collection agencies do have a license to make 'site visits' (within reasonable hours) to your home to attempt to discuss the matter with you although they very rarely do this because it costs them a lot of money. However, they have absolutely no right of entry, they have no right to take anything from you and you are under no obligation to discuss anything with them. Very often you will get more sense from a visitor than you would with someone calling you over the phone so I'm not saying categorically don't discuss anything with a collector if they do turn up, but I am saying don't feel intimidated and don't feel obliged to do so. If you are not comfortable discussing the matter with a visitor, keep cool and ask them to leave, if they refuse to leave, tell them they are trespassing and that if they don't leave, you will call the police. If they remain, call the police, tell them that someone is trespassing on your property and there is likely to be a breach of the peace.

3. “If you don't pay us now, we will send the bailiff around next week to seize your goods” – 99% of the time this is total hogwash. Unless they have a County Court Judgment against you, they can not instruct a Bailiff. Even if they do, contrary to popular belief, you do not have to allow a Bailiff into your home and they cannot force access.

These are the three most common frighteners that they will use. Now if this doesn't have an immediate effect, they will resort to harassment, that is, they will call you on the phone continually, some times being mean and nasty. This means that they are getting desperate and whilst you should recognise it for what it is, there is no way that you should put up with this, so how should you tackle this?

Well, the first and most vitally important thing to do is as I said previously, is to work out your expendable income by deducting all of your essential outgoings from your total income, this will leave you with your expendable income. From this figure deduct £50 per month for emergencies because they do happen (boilers have an alarming tendency to break down in the middle of winter) and with the remainder work out a pro-rata payment plan. This way, the larger creditors get a proportionately larger payment and the smaller creditors get a smaller payment. To do this you first need to calculate the 'Multiple' this is the figure which you will multiply each individual debt by, to determine who gets paid what.

For example, for simplicity's sake, let's say that your total expendable income is £400 per month and you have 3 creditors, creditor 1 is owed £10,000, creditor 2 is owed £7,000 and creditor 3 is owed £3,000. You have a total debt of £20,000 and you have £400 per month to service the debt. First, divide £400 by £20,000, this will give you a Multiple of 0.02. You then multiply this figure by the amount owed to each creditor, so using the above example, creditor 1 would get 10,000 X 0.02 = £200 per month. Creditor 2 would get 7,000 X 0.02 = £140 per moth and creditor 3 would get 3,000 X 0.02 = £60 per month. This would take 50 months to pay off.

OK, now that you have worked this out, you should send by recorded delivery , a copy of your statement of affairs together with your proposal of payment to your respective creditors. It would also be a good idea to send the first payment cheques to them at the same time, as a gesture of good faith It is also a good idea to include in your letter, the fact that you will review the situation every three months and that if circumstances permit, you will increase the payments. If you use recorded delivery, you can prove receipt of your correspondence by using Royal Mail's track and trace facility on their website here: http://www.royalmail.com/portal/rm If you do this properly, this should make the situation clear to the creditor and even if they don't like the proposal, they will realise that there is nothing more that you can do about it. A point to note here: if £1 per month is all you can afford, do not be tempted to increase the offer because 'it doesn't sound much' if that's all you can afford then that's the end of the matter. The worst thing that you can do is to be intimidated into paying more than you can afford because this will inevitably break down and you will have set yourself a bad track record.

Now the fun starts. Creditor 1 isn't happy that he isn't getting the £400 a month that he's supposed to be getting so he sends for Dennis the Debt collector. Dennis is a real mean sunamabich, 5'2” and seven stone soaking wet but he has the meanest tongue in debtcollectorland. Dennis has learned his trade well and he can use his plastic phone to reduce you to tears in a heartbeat and get you to commit to ridiculous payment proposals so he can get his bonus. Dennis makes dozens of phone calls a day because he knows that he can frighten people by being nasty, telling lies and shouting down the phone. Remember Dennis the next time he calls and realise what he is using to frighten you, it's a piece of plastic, it's not moulded to your ear, if you don't like what you hear in the earpiece guess what? You can put it down and if Dennis rings again, you can go and make a cup of tea (Dennis is paying for the call) and if he's still there when you've had your cup of tea, put it down again. Repeat as often as necessary. You can actually leave the phone of the hook for a couple of hours if you want.

OK, so Dennis starts ringing you at work or starts ringing you regularly, what do you do? Let's play out the scenario:

Phone rings:

You: Hello
Dennis: Hello you, I have been trying to call you all night over this debt that you owe to grabbit and runn
You: Oh really Dennis, why is that?
Dennis: well, we are not happy with your proposal and we want more from you
You: Well I'm sorry but I am just not able to pay any more than I've offered
Dennis: I don't care about that, we want £400 a month or we'll take you to Court.
You: is that so? Well I guess you had better start your proceedings then. I'm sure that the Judge and myself in particular will be very interested in finding out how I am going to be able to conjour up this extra payment when I have made it absolutely clear that I am unable to pay any more. Incidentally Dennis, you would actually be doing me a favour if you did because then, apart from the Judge giving you an almighty rollicking for wasting Court time, he would likely make an order for the payments to be lowered.

Dennis beats a hasty retreat at this point because he has discovered someone who know their rights so he is off to attempt his terror tactics on someone else.

Scenario 2:

You: Hello
Dennis's Mate: Hello you, it's us and we want more money out of you
You: Did you know that I spoke to Dennis last night about this?
Dennis's Mate: I don't care about that, you owe us money and boy, if you don't pay there is going to be real trouble.
You: Look, I am getting tired of this, I have given you my written proposals based on my realistic ability to pay, I am not trying to avoid payment, I am simply not able to pay any more than I have offered.
Dennis's Mate: Yeah well, I've heard it all before and as I said I don't care, if you don't make a payment right now, we are sending someone round to your house tomorrow.
You: Really? Well, let me just make you aware of this. I am now taping the rest of this conversation: (Pause for effect) and I am putting you on notice, that I intend reporting you to the Office of Fair Trading, under Section 40 of The Administration of Justice Act 1970, for Harassment. Furthermore, I will from this point on, only communicate with you in writing and if I receive one more telephone call from you or your organisation, I will see that you face criminal proceedings under Section 2 of The Protection from Harassment Act 1997 and before you say anything further, you may be interested to know that your consumer credit license will not protect you from prosecution. Are we now absolutely clear on the matter?

Then put down the phone and write the following letter:



Dear Sirs,

RE: Your Client – Grabbit and Runn Credit Card

I refer to my correspondence of (date) regarding the debt that I owe to your above named client. A copy of this correspondence is enclosed herewith, for ease of reference.

Since making my financial position clear to you, I have been constantly harassed by your operatives, who have attempted to intimidate me into making payments that I simply cannot afford to make, under my present circumstances.

I wish you to know, that I am aware of my rights and that your constant telephone calls are a breach of Section 40 of The Administration of Justice Act 1970 and any further incidents of this nature constitute a course of conduct, which is a criminal offence under Section 2 of The Prevention from Harassment Act 1997.

Please note, that whilst I take my obligation to you seriously, I will not tolerate such abuse and if I receive any further telephone calls from your organisation, I will have no hesitation in reporting the matter to The Office of Fair Trading, whom you may be interested to know, are currently encouraging reports of this nature.

I would be obliged if you would kindly acknowledge receipt of this letter and confirm that there will be no further attempts to contact me by telephone. I am entirely happy to communicate with you in writing and would be obliged if you would give my proposals, serious consideration.

Yours faithfully

Etc

This should do the trick, but, if it doesn't, keep your cool and report them to the Office of Fair Trading and your local trading standards office.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE USE IT

I hope that this will help some of you put things into perspective. Remember keep your cool at all times, don't be intimidated by a piece of plastic, if you don't like what you're listening to, put the phone down and remember the most important thing of all is to put and get things in writing at all times. If you think this will help, print it off and keep it near your phone – have fun.
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Post by fifilebonbon » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:37 pm
Hey Fergie - dont forget about the green slimy monsters with bad breath - that's who the call centre bunch are!!! So have made the decision NOT to speak to them as I dont do alien speak! We've spoken to the humans and they have been great!! Shall we have a group hug!!! Hey if we're all at the same stage - and there seem to be a few of us posting at the moment (Fergie, Lizzie, me, Billy1010, Uptomyneck to name a few) we perhaps should all have a group hug!!! Feel quite sure that somehow with Melanie and her miracle working team, we will ALL get there!!! XXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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Post by Brown Lizzie » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:41 pm
I'm so glad I found this site, everyone has been so lovely and supportive. In reply to Vicki's question, the reason we're contacting our creditors is because we thought we should out of courtesy. It does say on most of our creditors statements/correspondence, if you have a problem please talk to us first. We are following up our calls with a letter, but this is the one and only time we will be contacting them. From now on we will try to ignore any calls they make to us. I know I'm harping on a bit but its just that they've made us feel so guilty as we have been abroad a couple of times this year, overspent and been behaving like a pair of oestrichs, burying our heads in the sand!
 
 

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Post by Viki.W » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:46 pm
Well good for you brown lizzie. I must admit, I did go and see my bank manager at Lloyds TSB to tell him I was insolvent. That was scary, but he was lovely. You're on the way, not long and you'll hopefully have the protection of your IVA.[:)]
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Post by fifilebonbon » Wed Nov 19, 2008 5:47 pm
Well Lizzie I was exactly where you are now on Sunday - in major panic, feeling like a criminal - just felt completely out of control with fear! But a few phone calls later on Monday and Tuesday to a few HUMANS I feel SOOOO much better and actually feel quite Gung Ho about the green slimy monsters now!! You'll probably feel the same as well tomorrow!!! xxxxx :-)
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