Hi Dave - I recommend the following:-
1 Let DFD put the proposal forward, but do not pay over any money and do not agree to trade the car in unless the IVA is accepted (unlikely). Neverending is right - you have nothing to lose!
2 I have not seen this mortgage condition in a NR mortgage deed. Get a lawyer to check it out for you, as from what you are saying this will be called in the minute you are made bankrupt. If this is correct, IP's (including myself) and NR themselves are not acting upon these provisions. If you want to stay in your current property, and it seems to me that this is unaffordable, you will need to find new mortgage facilities and this will not be possible when you are bankrupt.
3 When you have verified the position regarding the mortgage, I would consider bankruptcy proceedings if the IVA fails. The creditors are unlikely to meet the costs of petitioning, so you will need to fund this personally.
And do let us know what happens. If NR accept this - the floodgates for NR proposals will be open again! Am just sorry that you seem to be being used as a pawn in a strange DFD game.
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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