Kadge, we filed on Wednesday gone, day before Valentine's day. I must say I was expecting it to be really bad, and that the judge would give us a right grilling or not grant the bankruptcy. Not at all, he asked if it was the only way, I explained what we had tried, reduced payments/token payments/not enough surplus cash for IVA or DMP. He nodded, signed the forms and wished us luck. The court staff were good, non-judgemental and friendly- afterall, they see this avery day they work. Now we are waiting to meet the Official Receiver, apparently they have the final say on what you can and can't have/keep. Our house will be taken but we have moved into rented accomodation-private landlord, we explained about the bankruptcy and he was fine, I'd heard some horror stories about letting when bankrupt. As far as I'm aware, all the expenses for selling the house will be taken from any profit that there may be. The rest will be shared amongst any secured debt and any remainder will then be divied out to the rest of your non-secure creditors. The same for any other assets that you might have.
I honestly think that it isn't as bad as I thought it would be, yeah, you get your name in the paper but Warhol said everyone would have their 15mins of fame!!! Lol. Seriously, don't dismiss it and struggle on needlessly, it might be your best option.
It's nice to be back......