Hello forum old & new, do hope you are well n Ive been checking in now n then but had nothing to give in posting replies.
Having one nightmare of a year - house move which was good - but bad for our budget in an IVA & has made things difficult. Things keep going wrong financially - we have no money in the bank each month n its just getting harder all them time. My sister has been in court after 3 years of abuse from a relationship n only went to court as my nephew got hurt n police went to our Dad for consent to interview my nephew when he was in his care. Past 3 years have been terrible for my elderly parents & me to cope with, police social services, NSPCC - regarding me Sis n her Son.
My mum is getting worse with her MS & other problems & i have to be constant tower of support for my Dad whom is 78 - doing well but needs me, I see them every day & love being able to help them.
My Husband has been ill for some time - well years n is in & out of hospital for endoscopy, colonscopy, Full bone Scan, MRI scan & his health is really bad n can barely walk some days. Doctors have not got a clue whats up - but totally respect us & are trying to help.
Then this Summer my wonderful,lovely close Friend whom have been a huge support to us n children have grown up since toddlers. Her Husband suddenly died in a diving accident which you may of seen on the news a few weeks ago. I am doing my absolute best to support her & the children & I love them all to bits.
Then my two little boys - one has had to change schools due to moving house n the other is just starting school too.
Its all been a bit to much n Im the one that gotta be strong for everyone around me - yet there is no where for me to turn n have someone being strong for me.
Sorry I am not pitying myself in anyway n feel blessed to be loved n needed my my family n friends - I just needed to offload x
Final IVA payment made in April 2013, never ever thought we could do it or get through it but we did! X
An IVA.co.uk Mentor is someone sharing from their experiences of dealing with debt
Lyns x