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Post by IVA News » Mon Oct 22, 2007 10:21 am
BLAME US FOR DEBT HORROR

A million people are paying mortgages on credit cards every month at crippling interest rates.

No wonder the level of repossessions is rising alarmingly.

Who's to blame? We can accuse the lenders who tempt us at every turn with great deals and offers accompanied by tempting images of gleaming cars and trendy apartments with great views.

But sometimes people have to accept their own responsibility.

We have become a society that demands everything NOW - and forget the consequences.

Too many no longer expect to have to save to buy a home, car or holiday.

And there's no shortage of money lenders out there to satisfy us.

There used to be a time all young couples scrimped and saved to find a deposit on their first home.

Three times income was always the maximum, but today you can get five or six times your salary. And they'll help you borrow the deposit.

To own a house, a little run-around, a television or hi-fi system used to be something special. You had to work hard to get it and there was a real sense of achievement.

When I bought my first car for £500 I couldn't take my eyes off it parked outside. I was a proud as Punch.

Today, a lot of people expect to have everything and with Christmas looming, too many will spend way beyond their means. They'll live for the big day and worry about the credit card bill later.

Some kids get game consoles, designer clothes and new bikes because their parents have access to funds. That doesn't mean they can afford it. But the dark clouds of debt don't go away.

And those lenders who freely dish out the dosh will be just as quick to send a stroppy letter or knock on your door when you're struggling to meet the repayments.

One of the biggest deterrents I came across this week was the sobering thought that, no matter what we earn, many of us are just two monthly pay packets away from bankruptcy.

So think on that before you start the Christmas shopping.

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Post by bagpuss » Mon Oct 22, 2007 1:07 pm
I do think that these days people dont seem to be able to wait for anything...they want everything NOW...

we had to move into our parents house to save for the deposit on our mortgage...it took about 6 months but was worth it.

i think its very much a case of "see it...want it...have it...pay for it later" for many these days.

Thats fine if you can pay it off and only have 1 thing running at a time...but many cant and dont.

I am sure many fall into the trap off."ohh well i already owe this amount so another £££ wont make any difference". (someting that i said to myself a few times)

there wasnt the choice years ago as there is now...now there are 1000's of types of phones, cars, music systems...all these fandoogle gadgets etc...you cant even buy a chocolate bar now with being faced with 100's of different sorts....then cant decide so go for more than 1.

There is so much temptation about us now that we have to be strong willed and thats hard when you see others around you seemingly having it all.

Thankfully i no longer have these desires...i couldnt give a flying duck what anyone has, or what they are doing. Things are never what they appear to be and when your next door neighbour has a new car on the drive, holidays twice a year and all the lastest mod cons...its cos either A) they can afford it or B) they are in debt.





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Post by Adam Davies » Mon Oct 22, 2007 1:47 pm
Hi
I totally agree with Angie,it's a buy now pay later culture and the more you have the more you want.
I always remember changing cars and then a few weeks later thinking about what my next car would be,I lost thousands of pounds by changing.
One big plus of an IVA is that it totally changes your perception of money and material things,for the better.
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Post by mikebdomain » Mon Oct 22, 2007 2:26 pm
How times move on Angie - My eldest daughter and her fiancee have moved in with us to save up for a deposit (albeit he has gone to Iraq for 18 months) she reckons it going to take at least 2 years to save enough for a reasonable deposit (25k)

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Post by Welsh Boy » Mon Oct 22, 2007 5:48 pm
I can remember going for my first mortgage and holding an account with the building society for a number of years was a necessity before they would even consider you. If you were granted a mortgage you almost touched a forelock in gratification on leaving the managers office. How times have changed, I see youngsters today who are landlords themselves in their early 20`s but then again good luck to them if they get it right, I am starting to sound like someone off "Dad`s Army", I just hope flairs never go out of fashion.

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Post by jamesfalla » Mon Oct 22, 2007 6:21 pm
As many people reading this forum will be aware, the IVA.co.uk community will be discussing debt education this week. We will of course be thinking about how to better educate people who find themselves in debt, but its preventative action that is really required.

I agree that our culture has significantly changed over the past 20 years to one of consumerisum and "have now pay later" attitudes. Educating people about the potential problems and pitfals of this way of thinking is all of our responsibility. But its not going to be easy with the ever increasing amount of consumer advertising we are all subject to every day and from an increasingly early age.

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Post by mikebdomain » Mon Oct 22, 2007 6:41 pm
Tony - I too, would be devastated if flairs ever went out of fashion... LOL

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