Hi Grace
Yes, it looks like you have the makings of an IVA there, subject to knowing exactly how much you owe and who to.
With regard to the sale proceeds from your house, in any IVA proposal you have to make a declaration that you have not preferred any creditors during the three years leading to the IVA. The fact that you have used monies to pay back family members, rather than using the monies to effect an equal distribution to all creditors is technically a preference.
Can you let me know who much you have paid back to your family, so I can advise further? Did your family members take any security against your property for the deposit money they lent you?
Regards, Melanie Giles, Insolvency Practitioner for over 20 years.
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http://melaniegiles.com and view my IVA blog at:
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