Hi
I will try and answer your questions
The newspaper ads will be here for some time,I do not think that there is a set date for these to stop.Your employer can't just sack you because of bankruptcy unless it is in your terms and conditions of employment.
I believe that your husband will have to sell his car,however there are some companies that will grant finance for a lease car.You will need to look around but try
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It will be upto the OR regarding your car and the finance company,my thoughts are that he/she will not allow this.
If you are subject to an IPO and your circumstances change the OR would change the order
On the info supplied you will not be subject to a restriction order
You will not be paying any unsecured debts so should have some disposible income to fund the bankruptcy and any further costs
You will be able to remortgage once discharged but expect a higher rate
Nobody will visit your house,the OR will rely on your statement regarding household goods.Reasonable personal jewellery and household items will not be affected under bankruptcy
Regards