Hi DD
I just wanted to say, you are one of the most caring people I have never met, your posts have helped me and so many others (I hope) through one of the most difficult times of my own life. You have inspried me with your good humour and I hope that you will continue to post, your sense of compassion for us is so welcome and whatever you meant here, I am sure it was not to attack or upset anyone, you were quite clearly trying to defend a first time poster from what you saw was bad advice. Batwaw 13,DD is not trying to attack you I am sure and it is not unlawful that you are in debt. I am sorry but this person has been one of the best posters on this forum and she would be feeling bad right now. We are all 'debtors' whatever our jobs might be and I feel it is unfair to 'gang' up in this way. Anyone can make a mistake and I do not apportion blame to anyone. I do know that DD is having a really really hard time right now, she is about to lose her home. People have a heart, please. Melanie I know that you are paid to know all about these things, but not everyone understands it like you do. An IVA is a one of event for debtors not an everyday thing. I mean this with the greatest respect, I hope you will understand that the stress of being in debt is really difficult, you know DD and I thought you came across as very harsh here. sorry.
LILY
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freelili on Sat Mar 03, 2007 12:38 am, edited 1 time in total.