Lisa
You once said that the debt was mainly in your name and I was thinking the same as gimmewine, you could go BR and then the slate would be wiped clean for you. I dont know if you have your own home or rent. You are very hard on yourself, of course you feel very desperate right now, we all know how that feels, I remember feeling exactly like you when my IVA couldnt go forward, I used to have to go the the bathroom as I would start to shake, wondering how on earth I was going to get through. However, one thing is for sure, you are important to those around you and although you want the the crushing feeling to stop, suicide would not help at all. It is a sign of deep depression when you feel those around you would be better off without you, that is an illness Lisa and you do need help to cope with it. There is an inbalance in your brain, brought about by ongoing stress and this could be helped by taking one of the new antidepressant drugs. The will not change you, make you into a zombie, or anything like that they will in time correct the inbalance, help you to cope better and help you to feel less hopeless. Somehow I get the feeling you blame yourself for everything, making you feel totally isolated.
Please Lisa, go and see your GP, you do need to, these feelings of suicide are a sign that you cant cope and suggest you need help to move forward.
We are always here to to support you and dont worry that you being stupid, youre not.
Take care
Love
LILY
fly me up to where you are beyong the distant star, I will wish upon tonight, to see you smile, only for a while, to know youre there, a breath away is not too far, to where you are.
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freelili on Sun May 27, 2007 9:10 pm, edited 1 time in total.