Hi,
We spoke to our creditors when they rang and fully explained our intentions about our IVA. It was scary and hard to deal with in the early stages but in time we grew in confidence and most of our creditors accepted what we told them and didn't bother us again. Obviously a couple of creditors did not stop (MBNA mainly) the calls and letters and pestered us every day but we just told them what we had told them the day before and tried not to get annoyed with them. It is hard to face up to them but I personally found it easier after I had done.
"Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said that it’d be easy, they just promised it would be worth it."