Hi everyone. I am soooooo nervous to hear about whether or not Melanie and her team will take our case on for IVA. I have chewed my once long fingernails with anticipation. Arggggghhhhh!!!! I am sure things will be ok, but i am knotted up.
Does anyone know how long this part of the process takes?
Not a clue I'm afraid! I'm sure she will get back to you soon and that everything will be ok.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
Please don't sit and panic - I am sure Melanie and her team are already reviewing your case and will be in touch soon to confirm they can help. I am sure there are not many that Melanie turns away - she is said to be one of the best - regards !
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There is a solution for everyone .... Just need to stay positive !
No dont sit and panic, the thing to remember (although its not easy) is that one way or another youre going to get this thing sorted, whatever it takes. You have already done the hardest bit, facing it all and telling someone about it.
I rang a couple of companies and they told me that I was suitable the next day. Its so easy to get carried away with yourself and its not just a problem it becomes your life. As hard as it is, try to think that this is not a live or die situation, you will be able to smile again and havve good times again.
I know its a horrible place to be where you are now but hang in there, youre not alone and things will get better.
Good luck now.
Last edited by freelili on Thu Jan 15, 2009 3:42 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Yippeeee!!!! I know it is only another tiny step on a ladder to success, but Melanie and her team have agreed to put us forward for an IVA. I know we have a long way to go, but the hardest bit is over admitting that we need help.!!!!!
Thanks everyone for your lovely support. Honestly, this forum is just fantastic.
Sorry for going on about how fantastic this forum is, but it is true. It helps so many people.
Fantastic news Deaney! You are in good hands there.
Glad we have been able to help you, and don't forget to keep posting and let us know how you get on.
Sharing from experiences of dealing with debt
The greatness of a man is not in how much wealth he acquires, but in his integrity and his ability to affect those around him positively.
Bob Marley. http://kallis3.blogs.iva.co.uk
That's excellent news Deaney,and i'm sure a huge relief for you..you really are in very safe hands with Melanie and her team,so try to stay positive,as you really have got over the hardest part now..good luck with everything and keep us posted..take care[:)]xx
Hey Deaney - so glad that Melanie has agreed to take on your case - that's another step forward and WELL DONE for making those first few steps. Good for you hon!! Hang in there now - the process can be a bit arduous and you will have lots more days of doubt (as I still am) but try and keep positive and know that there will be a solution and that you really are in very good hands!! Good luck! [:)] Fi x Oh and keep posting for a moan - I certainly do and the support is unfailing and immediate!! xxxx
Still gathering info....but hope to be on the right path pronto!!
