jane i read that post, and couldn't believe my eyes i also noted he came back under a different name, i wouldn't take anything he said to heart he obviously has nothing better to do than act on peoples misfortune, you did get great support off the other members from that site, i certainly wouldn't let him put you off posting, if thats his opinion let him keep it, we all got into difficulties overspending but he had no right to say what he did, and if it was someone who knew you why don't they have the balls to say it to your face instead of posting on a forum, it wasn't this forum everyone it was debt questions, he was very horrid to jane, but the other posters there did put him in his place but he came back a few days later under a different name, remember the saying also let those without sin cast the first stone, i am sure he will have many skeletons in his closet, if you have to go BR hold your head up high, they don't know what you have been through and anyone who is not supportive of you in your situation is not worth knowing or to be called a friend, at present you need all the support you can get, even it be here by posting your worries, so please don't let one mans horrible jibes put you off being with people who are here to support you through this difficult time
take care and try not to worry too much.
i think they have now removed the offending posts, on that forum.
kerri
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